Melissa Salfi
Melissa Salfi is a senior family and fertility lawyer, certified collaborative divorce lawyer and accredited family law mediator. She is committed to helping families through significant life transitions with a warm, compassionate, and practical approach. Melissa has a background in psychology and strives to empower her clients during challenging times. While her litigation experience is considerable, she is also a skilled, adaptable, and culturally sensitive mediator, offering affordable out-of-court resolutions to family law matters when possible.
Holistic Family Law Solutions
As a mediator, Melissa is approachable, caring, and perceptive. She is adept at understanding situations and perspectives quickly and is dedicated to finding creative solutions that are tailored to each family she works with. Having lived in five countries and completed specialized training in international dispute resolution in Europe, she brings a culturally sensitive and adaptable approach to her mediations. Melissa has completed over 100 hours of mediation training, including family violence screening, and is also a certified collaborative lawyer. This combination of training and experience enables her to provide a holistic, non-adversarial mediation style that works with parties to achieve durable, interest-based resolutions.
Melissa offers the following family law services:
- Mediation for a variety of issues, from pet ownership to parenting time and property division
- Collaborative divorce representation
- Desk Order Divorces
- Separation agreements
- Cohabitation agreements
- Prenuptial agreements
- Postnuptial agreements
Navigating the Complexities of Fertility Law
Beyond family law, Melissa has an established fertility law practice representing donors, surrogates, and intended parents. Her passion for assisting individuals and couples to build their families is reflected in the fertility law services she offers:
- Donor agreements: sperm, egg, and embryo
- Surrogacy agreements for intended parents and surrogates
- Independent legal advice on fertility contracts
- Declaration of parentage court applications
- Litigation over reproductive material such as frozen embryos or gamete
Along with fertility clinic leaders, academics, and legal experts in reproductive law, Melissa is involved in a law reform project on the law of parentage. Specifically, she is a member of the British Columbia Law Institute Project Committee that is tasked with reviewing the law of parentage as set out in Part 3 of the Family Law Act.
See: About Fertility Law | Path to Parenthood
Outside of the office, Melissa is a busy mom who enjoys yoga, café hopping, and connecting with people from different cultures. Melissa is fluent in Swedish and has intermediate proficiency in Spanish and Hebrew.
I highly recommend Melissa Salfi at Crossroads Law. She made this very stressful and emotional time in my life such a smooth process. She is very knowledgeable, compassionate, timely and efficient! Her writing skills are amazing, I can’t say enough about the experience I had and the positive outcome for me in the end was because of her. She helped me immensely, going above and beyond in such a professional yet friendly manner.
Credentials
- Juris Doctor, Law, University of Toronto
- Bachelor of Arts, Psychology (honours), York University (graduated summa cum laude)
- Admitted as a Solicitor of the Supreme Court of New South Wales, Australia and called to the Bar of Ontario
- Accredited Family Law Mediator
- Certified Collaborative Divorce Lawyer
- Certified Legal Coach
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Blogs by Melissa
How to Prepare for your First Collaborative 4-way Meeting
Collaborative divorce is a transformative approach to separation, where the aim is to resolve family law matters cooperatively.
A Look at Surrogacy Laws Around the World PART 3 – CALIFORNIA
Our series about the intricate world of surrogacy began with an exploration of how these laws significantly vary across different jurisdictions.
Do I need Independent Legal Advice on My Fertility Agreement?
The lawyer for the intended parents has drafted the fertility agreement and recommends that the surrogate or donor obtain independent legal advice (ILA) from another lawyer.